Cheryl’s Excellent Life

1962-2025

 

Cheryl VanRaden completed her excellent life September 10, 2025 at age 63. She was born June 20, 1962 and raised well by Dora Brice of Baltimore, MD and Thomas Pettiford (deceased) together with her brother Thomas Pettiford, Jr. and sister Annette Brown. Cheryl Pettiford graduated from Patterson High School one year early by skipping 10th grade because she already knew those answers ahead of her time.

In her 1979 yearbook, her many high school friends told her: “You’ve been so nice and your voice is wonderful. I’ll keep a place in my heart just for you.” “A crazy and fun friend I enjoyed being around. You’ll always be a friend of mine.” “A neat and crazy friend of mine that I won’t forget.” “A very Beautiful and charming young lady that I love so dear.” “To a very nice person, stay as you are and we will always be friends.” “You’re a sweet girl with a nice personality. Stay that way.” “A sweet lady that I will always remember.” “I must say you are a very nice person. Probably to me you are a numero uno person. Keep cool and sweet as you are.” “You are one of the nicest and friendliest people I have ever known.” “You are crazy, period. No, but you are a good friend to have.” “You’ve been a very nice and crazy friend. I wish I’d known you longer than 1 year.” “I’m so glad we met. Now I don’t try to make my voice deeper anymore because I know I’m not the only one!” "It was really fun knowing you and talking to you… I will never forget you because of that ‘voice’ !” “A very special friend that I will always remember for the nice time we had in New York.” “But when you rise to the top don’t forget that you are unique and one of a kind. Stay that way, don’t change, and you will make it, I know you will.”

Cheryl worked for the Central Intelligence Agency in Washington, DC for 5 years as an Administrative Assistant and received an Exceptional Performance Award. Cheryl then worked for the U.S. National Security Agency, Fort Meade, MD for 7 years on government contracts held by General Electric / Martin Marrietta Corp and received a Lighting Award from GE. Cheryl then worked for Johns Hopkins Medical Services in Annapolis, MD, for the State of Maryland also in Annapolis, for Anne Arundel County, Bowie, MD in administrative services, and more recently for Lowes near Orlando, FL. In earlier years Cheryl took her family to Florida and in recent years the family came to Florida to see grandma (YaYa).

Cheryl shared her nice eyes and kind mind with two mighty fine daughters, Charlee and Angel, that she raised. Each day, they display Cheryl’s style while I’ll smile mile by mile. Charlee Jackson of Middle River, MD provided 5 wonderful grandchildren: Elexys Smith, Samira Biggus, Bige Chambers, Jr, Brandon Chambers, and Jeremiah Jackson. In June 2025, Angel VanRaden (now Morel) married Cesar Morel in a fun wedding near Palm Beach, FL with many friends and family attending. Angel and Cesar began married life by exploring Europe.

Cheryl married Dr. Paul VanRaden and they began exploring the world together in 1995. Paul worked as a Research Geneticist in the US Department of Agriculture, Beltsville, MD for 37 years and retired as a Hall of Fame scientist in May, 2025. On May 18, Paul and Cheryl celebrated 30 years of marriage.

Cheryl enjoyed life and travel until complications from diabetes and a severe infection ended her excellent life. Cheryl was the head of our family, did most of the communication and planning for our family trips, and was looking forward to more adventures. She wanted to return to Singapore which we visited 30 years ago. The pictures below of Cheryl or that she took of her family show how she lived and improved the lives of those she met. Also a little audio helps remember her voice, plus some of a daughter and granddaughter. Most photo sets below were posted by September 2025 but several were later expanded and other displays such as the age series for Angel were posted in 2026 as reminders of our many nice times together:

Early Photos 1965-1994

Photos With Paul 1994-2024

I Found Cheryl 1994 poem

Little Wedding, Big Honeymoon: Asia 1995 photos

Recent Vacations 2016-2026

Family Vacations2 2003-2011

Family Vacations 1998-2002

Charlee, Cheryl and family 1984-present

Charlee’s Kids + Angel part1 1999-2003 part2 2004-present

Angel photos Newborn  Age1  Age 2-3  Age 4-7  Age 8+

Port Discovery with Angel, Elexys, and Samira 2001-4

        Cheryl, Angel, Elexys audio 2005-2020 phone voices

 

Cheryl did not talk about herself much but that will not stop us from saying nice things about her. Cheryl’s family and friends and I miss her very much.

Paul VanRaden

 

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